UNLOCK REAL SUPPORT FOR COMPLEX PET LOSS
No filter. No platitudes. Just real, grounded care for the hardest goodbyes.
What is Complex Grief and Why Does Complex Grief Hurt So Much?
Complex grief hurts so much because it involves not just the pain of loss, but also layers of confusion, guilt, shock, or unfinished emotions that can feel overwhelming and isolating. Unlike grief that fits expected patterns—such as the loss of an elderly pet after a long life—complex grief often follows sudden tragedy, difficult decisions like behavioural euthanasia, or the loss of a service animal who was also a lifeline.
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In complex grief:
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The loss can come with profound “what ifs,” regrets, or self-blame that are hard to resolve.
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The world around you may not understand or recognize the depth or circumstances of your pain, which increases feelings of loneliness and even shame.
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There may be conflicting emotions—relief and sorrow, love and anger, or a sense of both gratitude and guilt.
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Sometimes, the relationship was a central anchor in your daily life, so the loss shakes your sense of self, routine, or safety.
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Complex grief lingers because it asks us to hold multiple truths, answer hard questions, and heal with less outside validation or guidance. But your pain is real, and it matters deeply. Healing begins with acknowledging those complicated layers and finding support from people who truly understand.
| “Grief is love that changed shape. Your story is sacred here"
Every Loss Has Its Own Story
From sudden goodbyes to complex decisions, your feelings are seen here.
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Sudden & Traumatic
Loss
Shock, guilt, “If only…”replaying in your mind? You’re not alone.
Behavioural Euthanasia
Shame, isolation, or feeling judged? We deeply understand this rare pain.
ServiceAnimal/
Working Companion Loss
The pain is layered - with grief, lost routines and meaning.
Rehoming, Separation or Anticipatory Loss
Sorrow, relief, longing - whatever you feel is valid.
My Process
Every loss story is different. My blended approach— RTT Hypnotherapy, trauma techniques and practical grief coaching, is customised to your experience, always with deep respect for the relationship you’ve lost and the pain you carry. When you’re ready, I’m here to support you with skill, understanding and genuine care.
How I Support You
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Safe, Gentle First Step
You start with a confidential, no-pressure conversation— your story leads. Whether you feel overwhelmed, numb, or even unsure how to express your grief, I begin by truly listening. There’s no rush, and absolutely no judgement.
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Root-Cause Healing with RTT Hypnotherapy
Using Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT), I gently guide you beneath the surface of your pain. RTT helps uncover and shift deep beliefs and emotions— like guilt, anger and self-blame— often locked away beneath complex pet grief. This approach can offer lasting relief when talking alone isn’t enough.
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Rewind Technique for Trauma and Triggers
If your loss involves haunting memories, traumatic events or flashbacks (from sudden loss, euthanasia or accidents), the Rewind Technique is a safe, non-invasive process to gently reduce emotional pain and free you from distressing images or thoughts.
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Grief Coaching— Specialised for Pet Loss
As a certified Grief Coach specialising in Pet Loss, I meet you where you are— whether you need practical support, permission to grieve without shame, or help honouring the bond you shared. Coaching brings compassionate guidance, ritual creation, and small-step plans to you can process complex feelings in your own time.
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Personalised Ongoing
Support
Between sessions, I offer gentle check-ins and resources tailored to your needs— so you never feel abandoned in your healing journey.
FURever Love Notes
You aren’t just another number in a waiting list. Here, you’re part of our community, and your voice shapes our care
Every person’s grief is different. I will meet you where you are, with empathy, respect, and proven techniques to support your unique healing journey. Whether you need a single session or ongoing support, you’ll find understanding and acceptance here.
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It's okay to grieve. It’s okay to seek help. Healing is possible, and there is hope beyond the pain.
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If you’re ready to honor your pet’s memory and begin to heal, I invite you to reach out. Together, we’ll create space for comfort, remembrance, and gentle recovery.